Grief for Dummies, Dense and Stoics
Grief is unpleasant. Grief is elusive. Grief is confusing. Grief is uncomfortable. It can look like tears, anger, laughter, depression, manic activity, numbness and more. I want to offer a men’s primer on the experience of grief. Much more could be said than what I will cover but I want to offer what has been helpful for me in a topic I was mostly unaware for many decades.
Truly Great Sharing: Make What We Say Worth Hearing
This article offers some guidelines and exercises to improve what we share so that when we finally speak our audience is eager to listen. Men want to feel valued and connected and these 10 suggestions can elevate the value of what is shared with our spouse, children, small group and workmates.
NES Life Lessons
A nostalgic and fun take on video game playing and eight little lessons learned from the years playing the Nintendo Entertainment System and Super Mario Brothers.
Enneagram: Worth It or Lose It?
An article considering the valuable insights of the nine numbers in the popular Enneagram personality-relational profile. Two hot takes are offered and an invitation for feedback for those new, experienced and annoyed by this tool.
I would listen to the preacher if they would do this!
An article considering what folks listening to church sermons are thinking and hoping upfront speakers will discover. These 10 simple requests will drastically improve the public speaking into a transformative and engaging encounter.
Discovering the Art of Active Listening
An article inviting men to practice three basic listening skills to improve meaningful conversation: reflecting back, asking clarifying questions and validating the other’s sharing.
Valentine’s Day: There’s Help for Those Ready to Make This Year Meaningful
This article recognizes Valentine’s Day as a snapshot revealing our posture toward that special someone. Additionally, it offers practical suggestions for enhancing this day into a meaningful experience.
What is to be Gained In Losing?
Considering Loss and Defeat as a Transformative Tool For Men
…Not Crazy Friends: Part Two
This article carries on the discussion of men’s search for friendship offering a refresher on do’s, don’ts and reminders.
An Ode To Not Crazy Friends
A look at changing friendship for men in their middle years, and practical tips for continuing the search for an I’m-Not-Crazy Friend!